It’s 3:24 am, Junior is crying once again…you roll over and punch your husband in the arm, “your son wants you,”
Part of the turmoil (which quickly turns into desperation) of being new parents is the constant battle of who’s turn it is, or who changes more diapers, or who spends all day with the baby.
Save your relationship the trouble. Seriously…all it takes is a 30-minute sit down with your partner to suss out the details so you both have the peace of mind knowing that the other one is duing their part.
AND the self-awareness to know that sometimes you just don’t feel like it, BUT that doesn’t mean that you can blame, manipulate, or otherwise coerce your partner.
Will you guys always stick to the plan? Nope.
Definitely not…BUT having a plan, like having a budget is an essential part of being a well-working couple.
First start by ahdering to the rules, then you can freestyle.