Why Daddy Needs to Make a Birth Plan too & How to do it

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during my hours and hours of research, I came across this amazing youtube video

It’s of an awesome midwife who’s been delivering babies for many, many years (I’m putting the video in below for you).

She talks about A LOT of stuff…

But one of the main takeaways for me was that we need to be more understanding of a dad’s role in the delivery room.

I mean to old way to look at things was dad pacing outside the door waiting to light his cigar.

But times have certainly changed.

And the role of daddy has certianly changed! So let’s get with the times and discuss how to empower our partners during the birth process.

 
 
 

For related reading see: 11 WAYS TO PREPARE FOR BABY WITH YOUR PARTNER OR HUSBAND

The article continues below…

 

why dad needs a plan

it empowers dad

Like I mentioned before, this is no longer the 50s! We live in a world where dads take on a bigger role in the birth & parenting of their children.

When dad knows what to expect (more or less) and has an idea of what to do in certain situations that can arise during labor, he’ll feel more prepared.

And ultimately this empowers him, knowing that what he’s doing is making a difference, and is helping the situation.

dad has choices to make too

Chord cutting? Skin to skin? Helping deliver?

Dad has some things to ponder before the birth…sure not as many as mom…but certainly some questions worth pondering before the big day.

Mom feels more supported

With a partner who’s better prepared, mom will feel more supported.

Need some quiet time? Dad has a little script he can say to nosy visitors!

Experiencing pain? Dad has a list of what he can do to help!

Dad’s insecurities are lowered when he has a plan of action, so he’ll be less likely to bother mom with burning questions while she’s trying to birht a human.

helps communication

I’m a huge proponent of any kind of plan in a marriage or partnership.

From things like finances to parenting to basically anything.

Why? It gets you guys on the same page.

Yeah shit doesn’t always go as planned…but having a plan helps you feel more confident in your relationship & trust each other more!

 
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what to include in dad’s birth plan

important questions to consider

1. Will you be assisting with the birth? How does your role complement your chosen provider?

2. If you need a break, how can you communicate this to momma? (here's a prompt that might help: "Honey, I'm feeling a bit overhwelmed/tired, I'd like to take a walk/nap, can I help you with anything before I go? Is this an OK time to take a break?)"

3. Would you like skin to skin contact?

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what to include in dad’s birth plan continued

self care for dads

Make sure you outline little escape routes for dad for when he’s feeling overwhelmed, scared, anxious, or overtired!

Yeah mommy self-care is a thing but so is daddy self care.

Make a little plan about what you can say to mommy when you need a break!

what dad can do when mommy feels...

If mommy’s feeling pain…here are some ideas about what daddy can do or say to best support her!

Pain

Offer a massage

Offer to walk around

Offer to bounce on ball

Offer a bath or shower

Offer to distract

Offer to hold hand

Sit down with your partner and decide what daddy can do when mommy’s feeling…pain, anxiety, tired, and much more!

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Tell us in the comments sections below…what do you wish your partner knew before going into birth?

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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